The Penis

While watching the show White Lotus, three generations of men, a Grandfather, Father, and son, were talking about masturbation. The Grandfather's doctor told him to have a release every day, and the conversation went from there. The last line was, "It's a penis, not a sunset," and it got me thinking. We can agree that the sunset is breathtaking, but do you think a penis is breathtaking or even pretty?

I do.

In my conversations with women, some do, and some don't. However, in my interactions with men, they love them as they should. Some men even have pet names for their penis. Does your mate have one? I've even measured their cocks, and they really get into it because no one has ever suggested it before, which then will lead to many other things and make the sex more fun and playful…haha!

Let's talk about your feelings regarding blowjobs. Are you yay or nay?

The yay, crowd, keep up the excellent work.

The nay crowd, what do you think is holding you back from this tasty treat? Is it technique? The feeling? The thought? Hygiene?

Have him take a shower first and maybe do it together.

If this helps, I think of it as an ice cream cone. Think about your favorite ice cream or dessert, and pretend that is what you're licking, nibbling, and enjoying having in your mouth. I've discovered that men like it when you are enthusiastic about the blow job, and technique is secondary. Of course, you can always ask your partner if they like what you are doing while performing it. If not, ask what they would like and what turns them on. Then, make it a seductive and playful game you can play together.

When you don't take sex so seriously and let your erotic self lead, you will be surprised about where it will take you—the joy you will have. So please accept my word for it, and if you're struggling, reach out and book the "Getting to know you to call" so we can chat!